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Lawrence wrote Women in Love between 1913 and 1917. While the novel is not about World War I, Lawrence wants “the bitterness of the war” (Foreword) to be the backdrop of all the characters’ interactions. The main characters are urgently searching for meaning in their lives through love, but much of the novel is comprised of their arguments and discussions about what love is, what it means, and if different kinds of love are possible. The war creates the pressure they feel to find a new definition of love that will give them something positive to cling to in a time of crisis and that will help them shape their lives moving forward.
Rupert in particular struggles with how to define love. He and Ursula often argue about their conflicting concepts of love: For Ursula, love is the most important thing in an individual’s life, and, indeed, in the world. It is all-encompassing and always positive. Rupert sees love as more problematic because it contains its opposite:
It’s a lie to say that love is the greatest. You might as well say that hate is the greatest, since the opposite of everything balances. What people want is hate—hate and nothing but hate. And in the name of righteousness and love, they get it. They distil themselves into nitroglycerine, all the lot of them, out of very love (127).
Nitroglycerin was used as an explosive during World War I, and this reference shows the way the war impacts Rupert’s concept of love. While Ursula is talking about love between individuals, Rupert expands the concept to include love of one’s country, which is the “righteousness” (127) that leads people to support their country during wartime. Love of one’s country also translates to hatred of one’s enemy, especially during a war, and Rupert sees the manifestation of love and patriotism as acts of hate. This informs his pessimism about the state of the world and the unlikelihood of creating a brighter future.
Rupert attempts to define love between men as different than but equal to romantic love between a man and a woman. Rupert builds on this theory over the course of the novel. He begins by barely liking Gerald and thinking that they are “not going to be so unmanly and unnatural as to allow any heart-burning between them” (34). The word “unnatural” here is a euphemism for homosexuality, which was illegal in England until 1967. While Rupert does not envision himself and Gerald engaging in sexual acts, in Chapter 20 he states that physical intimacy among male friends is natural since they know each other intimately in other ways. The novel ending with Rupert’s argument that he should have a vow of love with a man, in addition to the vow of love with a woman, emphasizes the thematic importance of this aspect of love.
Gerald and Gudrun hold different opinions about love, from each other and from Ursula and Rupert. Gerald claims to believe in “love, in a real abandon, if you’re capable of it” (290). His ideal of love is much more traditional than Rupert’s, though Rupert accuses him of never having loved a woman (275). Gerald thinks he loves Gudrun, but she does not understand love in the same way he does. For Gudrun, “love [i]s one of the temporal things in her life” (448), meaning that she does not see love as cosmic and eternal, as do some of the other characters. Her ideal love is being with a muse—someone who inspires her art. Their differences lead to Gerald having violent feelings about Gudrun, embodying Rupert’s observation that instead of love, people want hate, and that it is impossible to separate the two emotions.
Women in Love explores masculinity and femininity, bonds between men and women, and the roles that men and women are expected to play in love and relationships, particularly marriage. Lawrence’s novel reflects the attitudes about gender from the 1910s, primarily that men hold a higher place in society than women. When Gudrun watches Gerald swim, she says, “[W]hat it is to be a man! [...] The freedom, the liberty, the mobility” (47). Not only do men have more rights at this time, such as voting, but they have the freedom to do whatever they want without chaperones or consideration of what constitutes proper behavior. Ursula and Gudrun try to steal some of this freedom when they go rowing on the lake, but first Gudrun must convince Gerald that they do not need his supervision.
In the novel, masculinity is associated with intellect and ideas while femininity is associated with emotion and sentimentality. Hermione, who loves knowledge and debating ideas, is characterized as “a man’s woman” (16). On the other hand, Rupert calls Ursula’s emotions “womanly feelings” (147). While there are alliances between women in the novel, femininity is less nuanced than masculinity. There are moments when Lawrence focuses on bonds between women, such as Gudrun and Winnie, who have a “charmed circle” (336) in their art studio. Gerald is an “outsider” (336) in this space, as well as in the spaces where Gudrun and Ursula bond. When the sisters discuss men, Ursula admits that she views her “men as sons” (262) and believes that “one would find almost any man intolerable after a fortnight” (263). Rupert ends up changing Ursula’s mind about men being tolerable to live with. However, he does confirm her idea that men see their romantic partners as mother figures: “I want love that is like sleep, like being born again, vulnerable as a baby that just comes into the world” (186). The womb and birth imagery that Rupert uses to describe his ideal love implies that love is a maternal force.
The novel offers a range of interpretations of masculinity, from the violent, self-centered masculinity of Gerald to the sensitive, gender-fluid artist, Loerke. Ursula calls Gerald “a bully like all the males” (149). He thinks women and feminine men are beneath him. On the other hand, Gudrun thinks Loerke “is not stiff with conceit of his own maleness” (463). Loerke, whom Gerald considers frail and unmanly, bonds with women, not men. It is implied, though never directly stated, that Loerke has an intimate relationship with his friend and traveling companion, Leitner: The “two men, who had travelled and lived together in the last degree of intimacy, had now reached the stage of loathing. Leitner hated Loerke with an injured, writhing, impotent hatred […]” (422). Just as Gerald and Gudrun’s relationship implodes during their time in the Alps, Loerke and Leitner have come to detest each other during their travels together.
Unlike Loerke and Leitner, Rupert and Gerald grow closer for much of the novel. After Diana dies, Rupert is Gerald’s only emotional support; Gerald keeps his distance from Gudrun during this time, until she finally visits him herself. The masculine bond between Rupert and Gerald helps Gerald cope with grief, as Gerald does not like to show vulnerability around women. Gerald likewise helps cheer Rupert up after Ursula says she doesn’t know how to answer his marriage proposal. Gerald jokes, “[S]o you came here to wrestle with your good angel” (275). The sisterly love between Ursula and Gudrun allows them to be a source of support for each other despite their different personalities and beliefs. Though Ursula chooses a traditional marriage, she does not push Gudrun to marry Gerald though she would support their marriage if that were Gudrun’s decision. The title Women in Love emphasizes the women’s perspective on love and relationships, reversing the traditional masculine-dominant culture around marriage and sexuality.
Throughout the novel, Lawrence explores a variety of binaries—dualities, paradoxes, or oppositions—to approach the complex, often contradictory nature of his characters’ beliefs. Almost every aspect of the novel’s world is characterized as binary, from the angel/devil imagery associated with Rupert to the past/present imagery associated with England. Binaries can include “a violent oscillation” (297), such as having alternating feelings of hate and love for the same person, or a “horrible fusion of two beings” (309) as in sex or battle.
Rupert’s description of love is a central binary in the novel. He uses the image of binary stars to describe his ideal of love as “maintaining of the self in mystic balance and integrity” (152). Similarly, he sees man and woman as “two pure beings, each constituting the freedom of the other, balancing each other like two poles of one force, like two angels, or two demons” (199). Rupert’s concept of love as balance and equality without one party dominating the other is at odds with Gerald’s view of love (and everything else) as a power struggle that manifests itself in passion and violence. Lawrence uses paradoxical descriptions to define these feelings, such as the “flame of ice” (402) in Gerald’s heart about Gudrun, and Gudrun sees Gerald “like a crystal shadow” (178).
Life and death is another binary that appears throughout the novel. Gerald’s father is ill, between life and death, for much of the novel. While grieving his father, Gerald has sexual intercourse with Gudrun: “His blood, which seemed to have been drawn back into death, came ebbing on the return, surely, beautifully, powerfully” (344). This is a life-affirming act, as sex is both a source of physical pleasure and the means of creating life. Conversely, Rupert believes that sensuality “is death to one self—but it is the coming into being of another” (43). For him, sex is linked to death of the mind as well as the self. Ursula is driven by her desire to “lightly, mindlessly connect with him, have the knowledge which is death of knowledge, the reality of surety in not-knowing” (319). Usually, “not-knowing” is related to uncertainty—which is often perceived as negative—but since sex is a physical rather than an intellectual act, relinquishing knowledge becomes empowering and enlightening.
Binaries are used as a literary device in other contexts throughout the novel. They appear as descriptors for things, like the “black-and-white tempest” (240) of Winnie’s rabbit and the “heavy fleetness” (399) of a Tyrolese girl running in the snow. The process of moving Ursula’s things out of Beldover is taking them “into the out-of-doors” (373), creating a sense of containment for a space—the outdoors—that is usually considered boundless. This highlights the importance of the transition away from Beldover for the sisters because they are not only leaving their home but also entering a new world.
The binary of new and old, or past and present, is significant for the novel’s political and historical context. Rupert believes the past—pre–Industrial Revolution England—is superior to the present (post–Industrial Revolution). He says, “[E]ven Jane Austen’s England—it had living thoughts to unfold even then, and pure happiness in unfolding them. And now, we can only fish among the rubbish heaps for the remnants of their old expression” (355). Austen (1775-1817) wrote during the 1810s, a century before the novel takes place. Like Women in Love, her novels examine gender roles and the institution of marriage. That Rupert considers the 1810s, which had more conservative views than his era, a source of original insight shows his level of distaste for the present day. On the other hand, Ursula dislikes both the past and present: “I hate the present—but I don’t want the past to take its place” (356). As a woman, she understands society’s restrictions on women in a way that Rupert, perhaps, cannot. Though they end up agreeing to build a new, unconventional, future together, Ursula’s and Rupert’s ideas about the future contain another binary: “wonderful light” and “darkness” (388), respectively.
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